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No means NO!

rufio

Well-Known Member
Original Poster
I know this is totally random and I'm sure no one will even reply, but, sadly enough, you are my bestest friends on the interwebs. So, here goes.

My husband and I just decided to get involved in a direct sales company for a product that we both use and enjoy. One of the first things to do when you join a company like this is decide who to join "under". We originally began talking to the lady who had sold to us. After a few days of getting info from her and talking it over between us, I mentioned it to my mom who told me that a close family friend was very involved in the company. Shortly after, we decided to join with her instead. She is a close friend who is invested in us as people, rather than just as dollar signs. I told the other woman that we had decided to join with our friend, and that is when all hell broke loose (perhaps a little dramatic).

I received a voicemail from this woman asking me to call her back. Okay... So apparently a message saying, "I'm going with my friend" is not self-explanatory. I called her back and was suddenly bombarded by another woman who informed me of how much better their team was than my friend's team. She told me about all her super huge connections and how her team all drives really nice cars. She asked if my friend was so great at her job, why hadn't I known she sold the product (we live in different towns and she's a family friend, meaning, for me, that she's great friends with my mom, but I know her well)?

Okay, then. I hate pressure, I hate being put on the spot, and I hate people who try to undermine other people. I sent her another message telling her we were going to join with my friend. I got ANOTHER message from her today telling me that their team was still better AND they were offering a rebate on the kits you buy when you join and only their team could do that because they were so awesome!

OHMYGOD! She has been unfriended. I can't handle people like this. My brother used to watch The Big Comfy Couch. Anyone know the song "No Means No"? Thanks for listening, guys!
 

rsoxguy

Well-Known Member
Ah, the job of a social adviser is never finished, and so I once again jump in to lend the proverbial hand. Your dilemma is not an uncommon situation. Handling persistent sales people can be as enjoyable as eating liver with a parent standing over your shoulder. Trouble yourself no further, gentle forum member, for the solution to your social quandary is a mere sentence away.

Wait for the overzealous team member to contact you again, and then reply with a dead fish wrapped in newspaper. Enclose a note stating, “Luca Brasi isn’t the only one who can sleep with the fishes, baby.”

I believe that you will then be free to join with any team that you desire, free from any annoying interlopers.

You're Welcome.
 

PUSH

Well-Known Member
If they call again tell them that if they don't stop calling then you'll get the police involved due to harassment. I don't know if police could actually do anything, but if it gets them to stop bugging you, then it's well worth it!

Either that or go with the fish wrapped in newspaper thing. :rolleyes:
 

disneysince71

Well-Known Member
Kind of like when the WESTGATE people would not leave us alone when we told them 8 we already own DVC we do not want your timeshare... In the end the manager told us "Our salespeople are trained to not let up until they have heard you say no at leased 8 times." Good luck getting rid of these people... You may have to get rude... but with a :)...
 

luv

Well-Known Member
When I was in my twenties and thirties, I knew people who got involved with pyramid scheme groups like Tupperware and Pampered Chef. Their experiences were not good ones. I hope yours is better.

Remember that you are always in charge of you and that you can always walk away. You don't owe them anything!

Good luck!
 

Master Yoda

Pro Star Wars geek.
Premium Member
Welcome to the world of MLM. In all honesty the lady does have the right to be upset, but she should not take it to the extreme that she has. You might want to talk to the company as actions such as these are typically frowned upon and in some cases can result in their membership being revoked.
 

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