looking for suggestions re: tickets/friend dilemma

xcrashx15

Member
Original Poster
Hi everyone- I just joined the forums today, although I've been reading them for few weeks now. I'm going to Disney World in October and it will be my 10th time there. I was there most recently last October (the food and wine festival was so much fun I had to go back again), but I'm always looking for new things that other people have experienced that I might have missed before!

Anyway, I'm going with three other friends, one was there most recently in 1992 and the other two have never been there so I really want to show them a great time. Three of us are going from Thursday morning through Sunday night and the other one is leaving Sunday morning. The friend leaving Sunday morning isn't really into Disney (or theme parks in general), he just wanted to go to an away football game and our school plays at UCF and USF this year. Of course I chose UCF since it meant more time at Disney! The game is on Friday night, so we'll have the majority of the day on Thursday, Friday and Sunday, plus all day Saturday, to enjoy the parks.

We're staying at the Dolphin and we also have a rental car. I've been showing my Disney World videos/DVDs to the two friends that are excited about going and they really want to see all four parks. They would like to get four-day park hoppers since we'll be there for the good part of four days, and with the MouseSavers discount it's the same price as the three-day hopper anyway!

The "problem" is with the other friend who isn't into theme parks. He refuses to consider buying anything more than a two-day base ticket. He won't be able to spend Sunday in the park since his plane leaves at 7 am but he could conceivably get a three-day ticket. He also said he would like to use his two days going to the DS and Epcot. The other friends want to spend all day Saturday going to the Magic Kingdom and I tend to agree that I would rather spend our only full day there as opposed to DS (which is more like a half-day place to me). If he bought the two-day pass, then my other friends and I would probably buy three-day hoppers so that we could split Sunday between DS and AK... but with one person that hasn't been to the parks in over a decade and another one that's never been there at all, I'm afraid that just won't be enough time since we'll have to head to the airport around 6 pm. Plus, if the one friend just buys a base ticket, the only time we could use the hopper privilege is after he leaves on Sunday morning... unless we just left him behind somewhere, which he definitely wouldn't be happy about!

I think that convincing the friend who is set on the two-day base ticket to buy a three-day hopper is out of the question since he's already complaining about the price of the two-day base. I've tried explaining that Disney isn't like other theme parks and he'll still have a great time even if he isn't a "thrill rider". He doesn't care to watch the videos I have so I don't think he understands the magnitude of everything, but I feel like once he sees it all for the first time he'll agree and be sorry that he didn't get the three-day pass.

The other issue is, he keeps mentioning that he wants to drive to the beach once our plane gets in on Thursday. We live in PA so we've been to the Atlantic Ocean numerous times, and the other three of us really have no desire to spend a day there when we could be at Disney. We've told him this before and he's still insisting on the two-day base ticket. The other three of us don't want to seem too pushy and jeopardize our friendship with him, but we really want to go see all of the parks. While I go to Disney frequently since my mother works in the travel industry and used to live down there, the other two have no idea when they'll be able to return.

So, any suggestions as to how we can compromise and find something that works for everyone? We're at the point where we're considering paying for the extra day for him since one of his reasons for wanting to go to the beach is that it will be cheaper than Disney, but with tuition bills and all we'd rather not spend the extra cash buying someone else's ticket if we don't have to.
 

barnum42

New Member
Let the non-theme park guy do his own thing. He can take the car and drive himself to the beach whilst the rest of you enjoy the parks.

Whether Saturday is a good choice for MK can be debated, as that tends to be its busiest day.
 

xcrashx15

Member
Original Poster
Thanks, that did cross my mind about the MK (and also about just leaving the friend to do his own thing if he's going to be so anti-everything!). We want to see SpectroMagic and Illuminations so we'd have to do one on Saturday with the other on Thursday. If everyone had park hoppers it would be ok because we could go to the MK during one of the other days and then catch the parade on one of the nights... although in my experience the MK is generally crowded on Fridays and Sundays too. At this point I think it would be easiest to just skip the football game :animwink: (too bad we already paid for tickets).
 

natalia1681

New Member
I went a few years back and had a similar situation. There were 2 of us with 2 day park hopper and then our friend who had simply a 1 day base ticket. We let our 1 day base ticket friend do her own thing for the day we park hopped (we had both been many times) and then for the day we spent together, we all went to Epcot. If he is that resistant to going to Disney, are you really going to enjoy your time there with him if he's going to gripe and complain the whole time:veryconfu

Why not suggest to your friend getting a 1 day base ticket, then spending that entire day at Epcot with all of your friends? Then let him take the car and go and do as he pleases on the days that your friends and you are park hopping. He'll probably enjoy himself and so will you and your other friends.

I hope that everything works out for you!
 

polynesiangirl

Well-Known Member
Argh, it always bugs me when stuff like this comes up with people. Planning trips with friends has always been full of hassles for me (I guess I need to get more Disney-fanatical friends, haha! :animwink: )

Anyways, it seems like you have the benefit that the majority of you are into WDW. If the odd man out doesn't want to, obviously you can't force him to buy extra tickets in advance. But as the others here have said, just let him do his own thing then and don't let it hold you guys back too much. Explain nicely to him if he complains that a couple of the friends in question might never get to come back, or at least not for many years and that going is important to them - he can decide whether or not HE wants to go, but he can't make decisions for everyone else. Also, he *can* always buy extra tickets when you guys get down there if/when he realizes that there's so much more there than your average "theme park." Right? So maybe he will come around.

I hope everything works out! :wave: Enjoy your time at the World.
 

AEfx

Well-Known Member
You can upgrade your ticket at any time. If the Disney-hater decides he loves it, he can always upgrade.

Plan your trip around the people that want to go. The odd guy out can go with the flow or not; but don't let him dictate the flow.

AEfx
 

xcrashx15

Member
Original Poster
Thanks, that seems to be the general consensus. I feel bad telling him to go do his own thing, but at the same time me and the others are paying just as much money to go there and we deserve to have a good time as well. We still have over a month to go so he might come around on his own before then anyway.
 

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