OH my gosh!!!! Buckeye, my family calls me the "Disney Dictator" even had a t-shirt made with that on the front and "Sergeant Schildroth" the back! (schildroth is our last name).
If you are going with children my tips would be :
1). head to your local Dollar General/Wal-Mart whathave you, and buy those water bottle/fans and lots of batteries! they are very handy to have, and off site much cheaper than disneys (about $16 I think compared to $4)
2). Make sure you know what everyones "must see" lists include, that way everyone will be happy if they see the things that they really want to see. Maybe no one in your group cares if they ride Small world or Astro Orbiter, if thats the case, don't ride those until you've covered everything else.
3). Like Buckeye said Go early and if E-ride nights are available, take advantage of those as well, worth the extra cost for being able to hit the big rides w/minimum wait
4). Have fun, take breaks for drinks, if your watching the parades, grab food to go and eat while your waiting, enjoy an ice cream as well, and take that time to plan the rest of the day.
when in June are you going??? we are going in June too!