I also had another thought. How about if you and your wife go to the luau and leave your kids at the neverland club. My 3 DS just loved this place and its right at the polynesian. They give you a beeper and the kids get sprinkled with pixie dust and its set up with a peter pan theme. The kids can have a buffet dinner, mac and cheese , chicken nuggets, etc. They have lots of cozy pillows, disney movies, a tepee with a granny type lady, once of my ds was playing disney bingo and 2 were playing free video games and I think they might have had a computer too.This will give you and your wife some special time alone together and the money spent on your kids would be well worth it since they would probably not enjoy the luau too much. I personally did not like the luau. I even fell asleep. DH and I both got sick from the food, and I did not enjoy sitting at at long table with other people who were complete strangers. One was a honeymoon couple who honestly looked liked they wanted to be alone in a more romantic atmosphere and the other was a family where the wife kept asking me if we had been to this place or that to eat and what were my opinions etc. So much for our privacy too. But it is a decision you will have to make. Hope the info helps and happy planning.