I too live very close to the resort. My biggest gripes are the marked up price of gas, limited number of good grocery stores, traffic, limited number of good paying tech-sector jobs, and tourists.... Just kidding on the last one.
To get a decent price per gallon of gas, I have to travel 5 miles northeast from my apartment. This, even though there are 4 stations within a 1 mile range. This is really a tourist thing.
Actually the lack of grocery stores is logical for the area. A good grocery store probably has trouble making real profits in a predominately hotelcentric area. This is changing though. A Winn-Dixie has opened about 2 miles north on Apapka-Vineland, and a Publix is being built at the end of Vineland across from the Premium Outlet Mall.
Traffic is a royal pain, but it is not 100% tourist traffic. The place just does not have enough highway arteries. They build toll roads all over the place, but most employees don't want to spend the $50-$60 per month for tolls, so I-4, John Young, and OBT get hammered.
As to tech-sector jobs.... Moved here last July... Still looking.... 'nough said....
Would I move? Heck no! I love the fact that I can drive to EPCOT in under 10 minutes and stay as long or as short as I'd like. While I would suggest to anyone else, that they move to the Metro-West area, I am willing to put up with the traffic hassels and long drive to work (when I get some), just to be close to the Resort. MW is a very nice place to live in. It has much more of a suburban atmostphere, albeit yuppyish. It's just that it is about 13 miles NE of the Resort.
Come on down!