Hello WDW experts! My family is planning our first trip to WDW in March. The group is going for 6 nights staying at The Grand Floridian and I believe on the deluxe dining plan. I will only be able to join them for 3 nights total in my parents room, and this seems to be an impossible option. They are saying I need to pay for the full stay of 6 nights and the full meal plan which is VERY much more than what I can afford. Will I be able to stay at the resort with them but for a shorter stay and get on their reservations for dining, bands, fast passes etc? Any advice or suggestions? I want to go spoil my nephews for a few days but if it means slowing everyone down b/c I'm not staying the full time I wont go.
Make sure everyone, and i mean, everyone is linked together using MDE. That is a priority if you all want to be doing things together (even if not all the time). FP+s, ADRs, things that need advance booking, make sure all family and friends are linked together.
As far as the hotel stay. If you want to be on the dining plan, its Full Length of Stay or nothing at all.
If your just going to crash in a room without being 'On' the reservation, that is fine, you just won't have anyway to open the hotel door, you will need to pay your own meals out of pocket (cheaper in this case).
Park tickets for you will also need to be a separate purchase since you won't be on the main package (resort/parks).
You don't need to be on a dining plan, in order to be sitting and eating with others who are. Server just needs to be aware so credits can be used accordingly, and a check can be issued to you (or whoever wants to pay your tab).
Being off the main reservation, also means no free magic band for you. Yes you can still buy one when on-site and link up with everyone else on MDE, and your park tickets etc.
Being separate, is cost effective to you, you just need to be aware on how it works. Mainly the resort reservation portion.