As a parent of one boy, and one girl it kind of depends. When they were younger, it didn't matter. Mickey, Minnie, Pluto, Goofy, Chip, Dale, or Cinderella, it didn't matter too much. But as my girl got a little older she became more interested in the girl characters, my son was still ok anywhere. If you have a girl I would suggest 1900 Park Fare at the Grand Floridian. Mary Poppins, Cinderella, Pooh, etc... We have all enjoyed breakfast at Cape May (Beach Club) with Goofy and Friends. I promise, which ever one you choose, everyone will be happy!