Well at Disneyland theres-
the Princess Fantasy Faire which has all kinds of stuff to do like princess story telling, crafts, cookie decorating, and some other activities.
The Fantasyland dark rides you might consider too, but you can never go wrong with Dumbo, Casey, Storybookland, and the other outdoor ones.
Big Thunder Ranch has a little petting zoo as well as crafts though Im not sure about the crafts.
If your daughter is into adventure Pirates Lair is open now.
Theres Pooh which is great for little kids as well as Finding Nemo Submarine Voyage and dont forget about Toon Town.
At DCA Bugs Land is fun theres only one height restriction for Tuck and Roll's Drive Em Buggies( Very slow bumper cars) Passenger must be 42" tall to ride and Driver must be 48" tall to drive.
Be sure to check out Disney Animation too there's Turtle Talk with Crush inside as well as the Toy Story Zeotrope (sp?) and the Snow White exibit.
Monters Inc. is currently closed though the 18? I think, Play House Disney also goes down I forget the dates right now.
Theres a few more but thats just from the top of my head.