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yensidtlaw1969

Well-Known Member
Tell them that one thing shouldn't screw up an entire friendship. If they were really friends they would forgive each other and that you know that they really are friends. They have to realize that reading the Jounal was wrong, but that it's also wrong not to forgive. Something like that. Hope it helps!
 

AliciaLuvzDizne

Well-Known Member
trust me
dont go if they're not even civil to each other. Ive been there before! And, with much more serious fights

PM me if you want details...but its not a smart idea to go unless you sit them down and make them talk it out. thats the only think they can do.
 

Disney2002

New Member
Ah, so familiar.

Spring break of my sophomore year in College. 5 of us. 1 desperately wanting another one.

We went as a group of 5 friends, came back a group of 2 and another of 3. The 3 of us haven't spoken to the other 2 since. They were whiny, irritable, etc.

By our 5th day, the 3 of us just took off on our own.

If your group is having tension issues, just split when you get there (if all of your arrangements for travel, etc. are together). Otherwise, split up now.
 

Bill

Account Suspended
Check on your reservations to see what the policy is. It it was a package, you're pretty much roped into going, cause it's usually 90 days. If it's just a room, it may just be the 30 days. :)
 

JackSkellington

Active Member
If you can try and fix the problem do it. Ifnot go by yourself. It is so much fun you will love it. If you got any more questions PM me or post them. K.:wave:
 

DCL

Active Member
The same thing happened to me when I went down with my friends for our senior trip. There were 4 of us, and one of the guys had a problem with all of us.... so.... he bailed on us, and the three of us went down there and had an awesome time
 

niteobsrvr

Well-Known Member
Originally posted by horizons1983
Hi, this is going to sound a little strange, but I need serious help on this topic. ME and my friends are planning on going to Walt Disney World for our senior trip. It is 5 of us. 3 of them are currently fighting and wish not to speak or talk to each other ever again. It all started wen 2 of them read one of my friends journals and she is now upset with them for doing this. I feel that this is going to ruin my trip with my best friends in the world. Any ideas on what I could tell them or talk them into to stop their childish fighting? I really need help on this one, please anyone have information?? Thanks, I really appreciate it!

Mike Tenuto

Hey Mike,

You only get one shot at somethings in life. A senior trip with 5 friends is one of those things. Experience tells me that 5 years down the road, maybe two of you out of the 5 will still be in touch on a somewhat regular basis. Take this moment and create a wonderful memory of five people who experienced a very importat part of life together.

Whatever was in the journal, while it may seem like the most serious information ever written, will quickly be diminished and possibly even replaced by new experiences as life begins to author the new chapters in the story of your lives. Even in a really good book, most readers can't remember every event that happened in the first few pages once you have reached page 200 and this is true for life also.

Most importantly live life with no regrests. As you ponder what to do in this situation, think about the future. Will you miss your friends? Will you wish you had spent more time together? Will you think it stupid that you did't go to Disney because of something read in a journal. If you think you will answer Yes to even one of these questions, then everyone should stop fighting and realize the relationships you have now and pursue them for all they are worth.
 

AliciaLuvzDizne

Well-Known Member
Originally posted by horizons1983
well, im taking more of the girl with the journal's side, because really the two other people r getting mad over nothing, so it is looking to be me, the girl and the othe rneutral guy....thanks

Mike Tenuto

be carefull here
now you're choosing sides and might lose the people whom you dont choose.

like i said...much experience in this situation.

good luck

oh and
i'll go :wave: lol
 

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