Not to ignore the rest of your post but there are a good amount of attractions with lower wait times across property.
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There in lies the evil that is/was Fastpass. Without it the average was about 30 minutes for the entire ride experience. Wasting 20 minutes waiting for your reserved time would have left you only ten more minutes to actually ride it pre-fastpass. You didn't have to wait it out doing nothing. If you walked into the park you decided to go to the left at the castle or right. The right-hand turn took you directly to Space mountain, which at the time was the most popular ride. It had long, long waits which basically was what increased the average wait time.
My family took the left turn and went directly from one attraction to the next as we went around the hub. I'd say that 20 minutes was the norm for in queue waiting, but always moving. If there were to many in line, you simple walked by it and did the next one. Returning later in the day to the one you passed. There was no wasted time sitting twiddling your thumbs, waiting for your window to open up. You were always actively engaged in a queue or on the ride. It was the Type A personality traits that made the Fastpass seem like a time saving thing, but instead of slowing down and enjoying the entire experience, running from reservation to reservation was the new experience. Currently you have to plan every single minute of your day and paying extra for the privilege, sometimes on the fly because of unexpected problems, and working harder on vacation than you did at work. Except now you pay someone to let you do all the work instead of getting paid to do it.
Why are you participating daily on a fansite about a place you haven't been for 6 years and likely won't be going any time soon and also don't particularly like.
Seems stressful.
It's not stressful at all. I am also one that hasn't been since 2019 and have no plans for ever going back again. For me they killed the Magic. Personal decision! However, I started going to WDW in 1983. My children were young and over the next 34 years I was obsessed with the Disney Parks. I went to WDW 48 times in those 30 years, once to Disneyland and once to Disneyland Paris. I lived it in my head constantly, that was how much I loved the experiences and I was 35 years old before I ever stepped foot in the Parks. It wasn't childish observations to start.
Over those years the discussion boards were very primitive. Dial up AOL was about the only access and that was always shaky. During those times I had those discussions with many people and a lot of them went to sites like this one. We got to know each other in an impersonal, personal way. We became friends with similar interest (Disney, mostly) In some cases, mine in particular some were in high school when they became part of the family and are now successful adults working hard and are still active in both the parks and locations like WDWmagic. I enjoy communicating with them even though I no longer have the Disney obsession, I now have a curiosity not only about what is currently happening in the parks, but how they are doing as people with or without Disney as a common activity.
So we stay on this site and occasionally comment on some part of what is happening in the parks. Things that we see as partially what has made us stop supporting something that we once cherished. That is part of why we still spend time on the boards. We don't always intend to influence anyone. I, for one, only tell my story about how things were back then and how that compares with what is happening now. We express our opinions just like you express yours. You don't have to change your mind, you just really could find it useful to know history to enjoy the present.