This isn't just a Disney thing. This is now a regular thing at restaurants everywhere. I think it's all of those kids who received "your special" and "participation trophies" for everything entering the workforce.
What used to, say 20 years back, be good, standard service (you're greeted, they ask for drinks, bring you menus, make sure you have silverware and napkins, bring you food, keep your drinks full, check on you but not as to be annoying, etc.) appears to be gone, for the most part, and, when you experience it, because everything else is so crappy, it seems to be excellent service now.
I can go into a restaurant, just a random one, and I bet it's 20-30min before I can finally catch someone's eye to check on me. This is standard now. It sucks. I'll even have servers walk by and they won't even acknowledge me and, I'm guessing but I'm not sure, that I'm either not their table or they haven't been specifically told to wait on me by someone inside. I don't get it. Further, they all expect 20%+ as a tip as just the base (for doing nothing - they don't see it as "earning" their tip but that you just owe them that whether or not they've done a good job).
It's a guess that it's the participation/special kids, but I don't know for sure. It sucks everywhere right now. I've finally had enough and made a personal rule that if someone can't get to me within 10min of me sitting down (which is an exceptionally long time for them NOT to get to you) then I just get up and leave. I'm not going to sit at a table for 30+ min hoping some entitled server might finally notice me.
Bartenders seem to be a lot better and that works in my favor as a single guy.
Keep in mind, I'm not looking for 5-star service, here, but just what used to be standard service in any regular restaurant or diner 20 years back.