We did the Chef's Table on our last anniversary, and had a wonderful time. I guess I might agree that it might not be quite as romantic as the Queen Victoria room, but you still can't go wrong. They knew that it was our anniversary, and they treated us like royalty back there, even going so far as having rose petals on the table, since there was only the 2 of us.
We have dined in the regular dining room multiple times, and found the Chef's Table to be a very special event. You can't go wrong with any of the choices!!