Mia319
New Member
First, for a little background info: my group and i have been going together to wdw for the past 3 years (ages: 18F, 18M, 23M, and i'm a 25F). And this year my 9 year old niece wants to come with. At first, i was thinking oh sure, as long as her mom and dad say yes, then fine with me... well, the more i have been thinking about it, the more i am starting to worry... i mean having a 9 year old for a full week 1200 miles away from her mom and dad is a huge responsibility. so, i've made a list of pro's and con's that i have come up with so far and i was hoping that you guys could help me out / give me some advice and help me try to figure out if i should take her with us, or break her heart and tell her no.
Pro's:
- This will be a great trip for her to take... my boyfriend's aunt and uncle took him when he was 10, and that is when his love for disney began.
- i want her memory of this christmas / new years to be great, because last christmas our grandmother passed away, and even i don't want to remember christmas like that.
- There will be four of us adults there to watch her / help take the strain off if she starts to get tired or cranky.
Con's:
- we have an 18-hour drive in the middle of winter to get to wdw.
- what if she gets sick on the trip?
- i am EXTREMELY cautious / paranoid and am worried to even let her out of my sight while we are at wdw... i don't want anything happening to her. i feel i am probably over exaggerating, but i'm worried that i might not have a good time cause i'll be stressed out about having to constantly keep track of her.
Am i being selfish or over paranoid if i tell her no? Am i taking on more than i can handle if i tell her yes? AGH! OH, i don't know... please help!
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Pro's:
- This will be a great trip for her to take... my boyfriend's aunt and uncle took him when he was 10, and that is when his love for disney began.
- i want her memory of this christmas / new years to be great, because last christmas our grandmother passed away, and even i don't want to remember christmas like that.
- There will be four of us adults there to watch her / help take the strain off if she starts to get tired or cranky.
Con's:
- we have an 18-hour drive in the middle of winter to get to wdw.
- what if she gets sick on the trip?
- i am EXTREMELY cautious / paranoid and am worried to even let her out of my sight while we are at wdw... i don't want anything happening to her. i feel i am probably over exaggerating, but i'm worried that i might not have a good time cause i'll be stressed out about having to constantly keep track of her.
Am i being selfish or over paranoid if i tell her no? Am i taking on more than i can handle if i tell her yes? AGH! OH, i don't know... please help!
:veryconfu