My first piece of advice is that you probably don't want to take advice from someone with only 2 posts on this forum. However, if you're willing to ignore my first advice, please let me offer you my second piece. I've been many times as a kid, dating, married, and my last 2 times were while married with a 1,2, and 4 year old. I think there is no truer way to approach this than by following Dwight Eisenhower's approach. "In preparing for battle I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable." You definitely need to understand what's where, know what you'd like to see, and then when you arrive, be prepared to toss everything you thought you know out the window. I am a ride guy. Love the rides, I can do without the rest. The first time I went with my kids, I was excited to get them on some rides. 2 hours after we entered MK, we still hadn't been on a ride. We hadn't even gotten in a line for one yet. We got there and the kids saw Goofy, then there was a dance party in the hub, then there was a stage show at the castle. 2 hours later and I hadn't been on a ride, and I'd never had more fun. We still saw everything we wanted to on that trip, but we didn't do it by following any plan I'd ever used before. We just took it as it came, saw what the kids wanted, and had a blast. I agree with what people say about HS and AK, to a point. I think they're not quite full day parks with little people, but they are definitely more than half day. Those 2 days were our Downtown Disney and hotel pool days. Park hopping with kids is rough, I had the hopper, but only used it once, and even then it was mainly just to justify having paid for it. As for the table service restaurants, I'll leave that to the real experts here, we are mostly a QS type of family, mainly because of price, desire to get back on rides/shows, and #1, my kids can't sit still for that long while at Disney. Enjoy your trip, no matter how bad your plan gets messed up, it'll still be better than any other day not at Disney.