Please seek a second opinion, other than your school guidance counselor. Actually, get at least 2 actual qualified doctors opinions, as a school guidance counselor isn’t nearly qualified to make that kind of diagnosis. And, reading everything on the internet will have you dying of everything you can imagine in 5 seconds. It seems to me that it would have been caught way before age 14 if it was a serious issue.
We have a 30-year-old son that was diagnosed on both the autism and Asperger’s spectrums when he was a young child.
But, he was also born 3 months early, and 1 month in utero growth retarded, at 1lb. 4oz.
He was not expected to even live.
Again, get more than 1 qualified opinion from an actual medical professional, and not a school guidance counselor.
Sorry, but, just ridiculous.