You can make requests (more generic) with online check in as well as the renter once tied to MDE. We're not picky on room locations usually so we don't go much further than that.To have your request noted on the reservation itself (which is your best option), the owner will have to do it.
The Touring Plans room faxes go directly to the resort, and at that point it's fine that it's not coming from the owner.
-Rob
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