DD has been to WDW 2x and DLR 3x since she was born. I will freely admit that her 2 trips to WDW (8 and 15 months respectively) were for DH and I, not so much her. One was an extended family trip with my nephews (3 and 6 at the time), and the other was a Halloween trip that DH and I had been wanting to do for years so we could do MNSSHP. The pictures of her grabbing Mickey's nose are pretty priceless, though (her nursery was Mickey themed).
Her trips to DLR have been for all of us..age 3, 4 and 5. They've each been unique trips, in terms of our focus - but they've each been fantastic. Taking her at these ages has "forced" DH and I to take it slower, change our own pace and expectations of the trip - and it's resulted in us having more appreciation for the simpler rides. Seeing the joy on her face as she rides the teacups is precious! It's a ride DH and I would both avoid like the plague on our own, but now gladly ride multiple times on a trip to see her joy and hear her laughter. The same goes for pretty much all of the Fantasyland rides. Rider Swap works wonders for us to be able to go on rides that she can't.
We've been lucky to have some photo shoot opportunities at Disneyland, and I will forever treasure the pictures taken of us walking down Main Street hand in hand. DD has delays, and didn't learn to walk independently until she was 3.5. This picture was taken about 1.5 months before that milestone
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photo by Danielle Ernest
Followed by this one the next year, when she was walking on her own:
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photo by Danielle Ernest
In particular, her interactions with characters at Disneyland the past 2 years has been amazing. As part of her delays, she has a neurological speech disorder and can't yet converse verbally. She uses augmentative communication - sometimes low-tech, sometimes an iPad w/a speech application. The characters adapted seamlessly and wove such detailed stories with her - she still remembers them at home! (And so do we, even 2 years later). We've collected the autographs in 3 different storybooks for her (one for each trip), so when we read them at home, we always see the autographs and talk about/remember the trips.
Whether DD remembers these trips when she's older or not, they have been magical. I will always remember them, and I am writing the memories down in digital scrapbooks for her so even if she doesn't remember herself, she'll still have the stories. I was 19 months old when I first went to Disneyland (my brother was 5..they were really taking him
). I went probably 3 or 4 times before I was 10. I don't remember all of those trips, but I felt the magic early in life, and have carried with me. I hope my daughter will do the same.