Yeah it is enough. I still get insecure in the marriage but I know he loves me. Almost 30 years of marriage.:sohappy:Well, once I got married I realized that I didn't need all the "table covered in rose petals while the band is playing...." garbage to know that he loves me. Alot of it is insecurity; and while I know you have been together for a while and you plan on getting engaged, there's still the "he has to prove he loves me" factor... I think most married couples are like us, Kat and her DH, Susan and her DH, etc. Just being together is enough. :shrug: