Magic Friends Are For Lovers But Not THAT Kind Of Lover

Disnut

Member
Well, once I got married I realized that I didn't need all the "table covered in rose petals while the band is playing...." garbage to know that he loves me. Alot of it is insecurity; and while I know you have been together for a while and you plan on getting engaged, there's still the "he has to prove he loves me" factor... I think most married couples are like us, Kat and her DH, Susan and her DH, etc. Just being together is enough. :shrug:
Yeah it is enough. I still get insecure in the marriage but I know he loves me. Almost 30 years of marriage.:sohappy:
 

k.hunter30

New Member
sorry, i had to quickly vent...

the probably is, my girlfriend says "we can just stay in..."

but i know deep down she would be devastated doing that because because all here friends have complete jokes for boyfriends who buy into this love-fest and probably demand on "taking you to a cove on a boat with a candlelit dinner, where the table is covered in rose pedals while a band I rented for the night plays the most romantic italian music while doves fly above us and drop more rose pedals while we feed each other love…”

so... i can't let her down...

i mean i treat her like gold 364 days a year, and on this 365th i'm expected to give even more above and beyond... :hurl:
I see what you're saying... you'll grow out of it litle by little though.

A little bit. But I really don't want to have to get up in front of the class to describe my celebrity.
who is your celebrity?
 

nibblesandbits

Well-Known Member
Well, once I got married I realized that I didn't need all the "table covered in rose petals while the band is playing...." garbage to know that he loves me. Alot of it is insecurity; and while I know you have been together for a while and you plan on getting engaged, there's still the "he has to prove he loves me" factor... I think most married couples are like us, Kat and her DH, Susan and her DH, etc. Just being together is enough. :shrug:
I totally agree...that's my blog topic today. :lol: How that change has occured in me...a person who used to need the flowers and stuff to someone who just wants to be with my hubby. Need no fanfare. I'm currently writing it right now.
 

mpoppins76

Well-Known Member
Well, once I got married I realized that I didn't need all the "table covered in rose petals while the band is playing...." garbage to know that he loves me. Alot of it is insecurity; and while I know you have been together for a while and you plan on getting engaged, there's still the "he has to prove he loves me" factor... I think most married couples are like us, Kat and her DH, Susan and her DH, etc. Just being together is enough. :shrug:
*calls DF to tell him to cancel the band & rose petals* :lookaroun
 

mousefan1972

Well-Known Member
That's so great Kristin! :sohappy:
And Susan... 30 years! How wonderful!!! :sohappy::sohappy:


Thanks, Kat. :kiss: As you know, it's not easy. But I'm a firm believer that a good marriage takes hard work, and too many people nowadays bail at the first sign of trouble. When I said "for better or worse" I meant it. Hard to believe we'll be married for 10 years in October!
 

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