8th- Epcot- Akershus for dinner
9th- MK- Crystal Palace for dinner
10th- HS- 50's prime time for dinner
11th- AK- Breakfast- tusker house
Lunch- Yak and Yeti
Dinner- Narcoosee's
12th- EP- Lunch- Coral Reef
dinner- Rose and Crown
13th- MK- Cinderlla's Castle- dinner
14th- EP- Teppan Edo- lunch
Via Napoli- dinner
Rest are going to be QS
Wow. For a first timer, you did your homework. To get all those reservations is amazing. You must be very lucky, or you started early. The only one you missed that I think your kids would love is Sci Fi in HS. The foods not great, but the atmosphere is.
Make sure and do the early hours. That's the best time to be able to do Pooh and Peter Pan in MK without a long wait or a fastpass. For AK, do the Safari first. We walked straight on in June during early hours and came right out beside Tusker House for our breaksfast adr. By afternoon, the wait was very long. We got a fastpass that only had a 45 minute wait and were on the ride within 5 minutes after getting in the fastpass line. In Epcot, do Soarin first. Grab a fastpass right before you get in the standby line, and you'll probably be able to ride again within an hour or less. In HS, go to Toy Story Mania. Grab a fastpass and then get in the standby if it isn't long already. In June, by the time we got there and got a fastpass, the line was already long. Make sure and check to see who's performing in Epcot at the American Pavillion. We have seen some really great performances there. One of my favorites, which probably dates me, was Herman Hermits. They do have more contemporary acts also.
After hours get better the closer to closing, but morning hours are much less crowded. Even with afterhours, if you don't get a fastpass earlier in the day, you will have to wait a long time for Toy Story and Peter Pan. During afterhours in June, the wait for Toy Story was still 60 minutes 30 minutes before the park closed. I had heard people say they sometimes put inaccurate times, so I looked inside to make sure the line was that long, and it was.
I was a planner like you my first time. I had practically memorized the maps and had read several guides many times. I checked the refurbs and park hours all the time. I talked to friends who had been annual passholders for a long time. They told me all kinds of shortcuts in the parks.
I know you'll love it and no matter how much you've read about it, there will be nothing like stepping into each park the first time. Each park is unique and has a totally different feel.