I haven't been to DL a ton of times so I'm no "expert" but I am planning my 4th trip. Anyway, my husband and I enjoy eating at these places:
DL:
*Café Orleans (best tables service for us)
-Plaza Inn (not table service, but the fried chicken is great!)
-The pizza place in Tomorrowland I want to call it Red Rockets but I think that is wrong (not for the Pizza but there is a pasta dish with sundried tomatoes and a creamy basil sauce that is really good. I make it at home now)
- Blue Bayou is okay, we are going to give it another try for the Fantasmic dining package this year.
-Bengal BBQ (quick service: the skewers are great, the spicy one is SUPER spicy)
California Adventure:
Carthay Circle (the biscuits are the best!)
Flo's in Car's Land
Downtown Disney:
Naples (like Via Napoli in Epcot)
Earl of Sandwich
Best Bar: Trader Sam's at the Disneyland Hotel