Going to try and keep this as simple as possible, though the drama has been going on for a while.
Dear Niece moved out of state with her fiancee. Her and her mom (my only sis) have had issues getting along for years.
Dear Niece is getting married (back home) and sis is paying for some of it.
Dear Niece is wedding dress shopping in a few weeks and wants me to go. Sis has trouble holding things together when she sees me and DN getting along, as their relationship is so bad. Sis doesn't want me to go along dress shopping. DN has told her she wants me there, and sis had a melt down over it.
Would you go or not? Feel a bit caught between a rock and a hard place. Yes, I would love to go! Feel it is DN's wedding, and she should have a say. However don't want to cause Dear Sis any more emotional stress. Don't want DN upset with me either.
Dear Niece moved out of state with her fiancee. Her and her mom (my only sis) have had issues getting along for years.
Dear Niece is getting married (back home) and sis is paying for some of it.
Dear Niece is wedding dress shopping in a few weeks and wants me to go. Sis has trouble holding things together when she sees me and DN getting along, as their relationship is so bad. Sis doesn't want me to go along dress shopping. DN has told her she wants me there, and sis had a melt down over it.
Would you go or not? Feel a bit caught between a rock and a hard place. Yes, I would love to go! Feel it is DN's wedding, and she should have a say. However don't want to cause Dear Sis any more emotional stress. Don't want DN upset with me either.