That is all spot on and is where the problem is. I think the vast majority don't want to plan plan plan, so they do get frustrated and it leaves a bad taste. Everyone knows you need to plan for any vacation. But there is planning, and then there’s DISNEY planning.
There is way too much emphasis on making ADR's and FP's the first day. People must come here and get all anxious reading the posts like they're not going to get to do anything.
I live 3 hours away. Most of my trips are short and relatively last minute (maybe planned a month or two in advance.) Sometimes they're even more last minute than that. Rarely do we get to plan a year in advance because of our work schedules.
I've done everything I wanted to do and more.
There are expectations, and then there are
expectations.
There is always a very good place to eat, even at the last minute, including sit-down restaurants, including when the app shows there are no tables available.
You just walk up and ask if they have a table. Most of the time they do unless your party is a "push two tables together" party.
Some flexibility is required. Have some backup choices. You don't have to go to every restaurant on this trip. "Leave them wanting more."
There are very few restaurants you can't get a reservation for, and there are very few attractions you can't get a FP for, and that's mainly because they are new-ish.
We have walked in to Be Our Guest more than once. It was a pleasant surprise. If we didn't get in, the trip wouldn't be ruined. I'd take responsibility for not planning ahead enough, and eat at another perfectly wonderful restaurant.
We got a reservation for California Grill about two hours before dinner one day. It was right about the time Wishes was being switched out for HEA, and we wanted to watch it from the restaurant (which we had never done before.) Still, this was not dire. It would be great if we could do it, but I was never despondent in the hours prior to getting that reservation. I had great back ups in mind. There are so many good places to eat. You don't have to get the one right then and there.
We have stood outside Rose & Crown and saw nothing available on the app. We walked up to the podium, and were seated in 10 minutes.
Hint: they know they need to save room for walk-ups somewhere!
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I got a FoP FP at 1PM instead of 6AM on the day I was eligible to get them (not long after the attraction opened.)
I understand for those for whom it is a one time experience, you want to do all you can. The first time I went, I thought it would be the only time. We did almost every single thing, open to close, with the old paper fastpasses.
I have never not gotten a FP for something I really wanted to do. I had to have some flexibility to take the last minute FP for Frozen or SDMT (back then) or RoL, but we did them all. Never missed something important, even on a 2 day trip. It's all in my trip reports.
And if I did miss something, I didn't notice because I am at Disney World, making my own great time, and whatever else I did was fantastic.
The one thing I remember missing was the Chef's Table at Victoria & Albert's. We sat in the room with four tables instead. How could I be upset about that?
And the next day began a week of no power at home because Irma hit. Grateful for what I get to do, and that my house wasn't damaged.
So people have to just be realistic, prioritize, be glad you can afford to go at all, and
most of all ignore all the warnings and predictions of doom if you don't get something at the 180 or 60 or 30 day mark. You do not quit then. You keep trying every once in awhile, and things pop up. You book what you can and then change it when what you really wanted comes open. So much comes open the night before and the day of your visit! Forget "I need an ADR" and just walk up to the restaurant and ask. It can't hurt. Often they can take care of you.
Use the app while you're in line for something else or on a break. No, you don't have to be obsessed or glued to your phone or take hours and hours. Just be strategic. Things get canceled, added, reserved and released later.
Except that's exaggeration and that level of planning isn't entirely necessary. I'm sick of people on forums who make others panic and think every last moment needs to be like that by scaremongering and giving incorrect information. Rant over.
Agreed!