This is fair, and you’re right that his post was suggesting something different from my own point. To clarify, I’ve no problem with the complaints themselves (as you note, I’ve voiced some of my own recently); I just wish the rhetoric were less charged and hyperbolic (I’d like to see terms like “forced” and “abused” dropped).
Oh, I agree that using words like "forced" and "abused" is also silly. If you're that livid about it, you should probably take a step back and look at whether going to Disney is actually worth it to you.
It was really just the "you don't have to, stop whining" thing that drives me crazy. That always feels, at least to me, like an attempt to shut down any discussion whatsoever.
It's not like people don't have legitimate complaints, especially about things like the parking fees.