The Chit Chat Chit Chat Thread

StarWarsGirl

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Over the weekend i fostered a stray kitten who followed someone i know home. He was underweight, covered in poop, had worms, and had at least twenty fleas we pulled off him. At first he was somewhat aggressive and hissed when i came near him. But then i gave him a can of wet food and he became the most snuggly cat ever met, and purred so long it kept him awake 😂😂

The rescue i work with found him transport to a cat rescue up in Akron and started medical treatment for him. He's going make someone a very lucky cat owner ❤❤

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Aww, this is so great! Poor baby was scared, but leave it to food to get them to warm up. And he has two different colored eyes! So glad you found him and gave him the care he needed. We need more humans in the world like you. ❤️
 

StarWarsGirl

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Oh and i learned that you don't have to potty train cats. You just put down litter boxes and they instinctively know what to do with it. I watched this guy go from pooping all over my bathroom to only using a litter box in 0.0 seconds. That's apparently normal and cats just do that. Makes me feel better about getting a younger cat if A every outgrows her allergy.
Jasmine was eight weeks old when I got her. I brought her home and showed her the litter box, and we never had any problem. If they've been around older cats, the older cats also train the younger ones. There's some stuff with Jasmine where I didn't need to train her; she learned from Belle.
 

Figgy1

Premium Member
I only took one, and it's on my phone. From their FB page:
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That's just the front part. If you followed the bar to the left, there's a side part with tables. They are "giving us" a table, meaning we can decorate on the wall next to the table however we want. They are talking about doing a "vinyl night" on Wednesdays, which is already BOGO night. We would lend a turntable and a few starter records, people can bring their own records to play on the turntable. Thinking about that.




The landlord thing: We've mostly had a decent relationship. I was their property manager for a few years. They have a history of playing hardball at first, but then coming around to see reason. I'm hoping for that. They've never "gone after" anyone who broke the lease while I was property manager, but it was never more than a few months before the end of the lease. (People would lose their deposits and just consider it rent.) I have 11 months left.

When they replaced me as prop manager (because I opened my second store and couldn't be on property as often) I had just signed a two year extension. I objected to that (as I'd no longer have the PM deduction) and they said I could break the lease if I wanted, and that the lease was more to protect me than them.

But several months ago, when I suggested shrinking the store (it's technically two units, so going from two to one) they balked. They wanted replacements before letting me out, and suggested the rent on the remaining unit would go up.

Recently, their realtor told me they had someone interested in one side, and as of today, that side will be empty. On Wednesday, he told me someone else was interested in the other side, but they wanted it August 1. I said let me try to figure out if I can get both sides cleared out by then - it would be a pretty huge task, and I had nowhere to go yet. (The place I was originally going to move to months ago couldn't wait any longer and took in a different tenant in the meantime.)

After signing with the new place on Friday, I immediately called the realtor to let him know I could be out by 8/15 at the latest, possibly 7/31, thinking that would be awesome (since he had a second interested party.) But he said, "Oh, that deal fell through." Then he got pretty surprisingly adversarial about it, saying, "Don't put me in the middle of this, Tony" and to talk to the landlords. (In the meantime, I told the property manager, since it was late on a Friday.)

I picked up the trailer and moved some stuff into the new location already that same night - to continue emptying the unit that needs to be empty today.

Other than sheer luck, there is no realistic way to perfectly time someone moving in, and moving an established record store out in the blink of an eye. There's going to be a gap. I have a feeling they're going to make me pay for the gap by keeping my deposit and/or last month's rent. (Considering I just put down another first, last, and security unexpectedly on Friday, I'm broke for the summer lol. And have to spend on labor and fixtures to get everything set up.)

This is a crazy timeframe, but I'd like to get out of the old place completely by 7/31, and at least soft opened in the new place before I leave for New Orleans (business trip) on 8/4. Yes, today is the 15th. LOL. Have to go down to the City and do all the paperwork this morning (licenses, etc.) and it looks like Wednesday will be a big moving day, moving hopefully about a third of the inventory - leaving the current store functional in the meantime.



That's the idea. I just did my June sales tax last night, so the numbers are fresh in my head. The old store took a dive from 2017 to 2018, beginning around March 2018, and averaging a 20-30% drop for most of the rest of the year. 2019 has seen an improvement (with effort) but usually not back up to 2017 levels.

Meanwhile the new store opened in late 2017. Both stores did great at the same time for months, so I did not think one was cannibalizing the other (they're 10 miles apart.) But to use June as an example: old store down about 32% from 2017 to 2018, up about 15% from 2018 to 2019 (so still below 2017.) Meanwhile, new store beat old store's 2017 in 2018, and grew a full 45% from 2018 to 2019. Old store hit the ceiling, new store is way better and still at the floor. **I need two of those** LOL.

I paid attention to what made the new store work better and tried to incorporate it into our "new old" location: relevant neighbors, big shared parking lot, more foot traffic, a big, open floor plan, expanding certain genres, etc.

Very, very good feeling about the new place. Getting it to work the way the previous new place does would change everything. Plus Brian's recent promotion, maybe in a year we could finally be "not struggling" as much.

Just trying not to lose +/- $3K on my way out the door. Or worse if they don't get tenants for a year. (New tenants are coming in several hundred dollars a month higher than what I was paying, so I don't see a downside for them. It's just a matter of if they want to be hard headed or not.)
I'm sure they'll take more money per month. Good luck and pixie dust
 

MySmallWorldof4

Well-Known Member
I only took one, and it's on my phone. From their FB page:
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That's just the front part. If you followed the bar to the left, there's a side part with tables. They are "giving us" a table, meaning we can decorate on the wall next to the table however we want. They are talking about doing a "vinyl night" on Wednesdays, which is already BOGO night. We would lend a turntable and a few starter records, people can bring their own records to play on the turntable. Thinking about that.




The landlord thing: We've mostly had a decent relationship. I was their property manager for a few years. They have a history of playing hardball at first, but then coming around to see reason. I'm hoping for that. They've never "gone after" anyone who broke the lease while I was property manager, but it was never more than a few months before the end of the lease. (People would lose their deposits and just consider it rent.) I have 11 months left.

When they replaced me as prop manager (because I opened my second store and couldn't be on property as often) I had just signed a two year extension. I objected to that (as I'd no longer have the PM deduction) and they said I could break the lease if I wanted, and that the lease was more to protect me than them.

But several months ago, when I suggested shrinking the store (it's technically two units, so going from two to one) they balked. They wanted replacements before letting me out, and suggested the rent on the remaining unit would go up.

Recently, their realtor told me they had someone interested in one side, and as of today, that side will be empty. On Wednesday, he told me someone else was interested in the other side, but they wanted it August 1. I said let me try to figure out if I can get both sides cleared out by then - it would be a pretty huge task, and I had nowhere to go yet. (The place I was originally going to move to months ago couldn't wait any longer and took in a different tenant in the meantime.)

After signing with the new place on Friday, I immediately called the realtor to let him know I could be out by 8/15 at the latest, possibly 7/31, thinking that would be awesome (since he had a second interested party.) But he said, "Oh, that deal fell through." Then he got pretty surprisingly adversarial about it, saying, "Don't put me in the middle of this, Tony" and to talk to the landlords. (In the meantime, I told the property manager, since it was late on a Friday.)

I picked up the trailer and moved some stuff into the new location already that same night - to continue emptying the unit that needs to be empty today.

Other than sheer luck, there is no realistic way to perfectly time someone moving in, and moving an established record store out in the blink of an eye. There's going to be a gap. I have a feeling they're going to make me pay for the gap by keeping my deposit and/or last month's rent. (Considering I just put down another first, last, and security unexpectedly on Friday, I'm broke for the summer lol. And have to spend on labor and fixtures to get everything set up.)

This is a crazy timeframe, but I'd like to get out of the old place completely by 7/31, and at least soft opened in the new place before I leave for New Orleans (business trip) on 8/4. Yes, today is the 15th. LOL. Have to go down to the City and do all the paperwork this morning (licenses, etc.) and it looks like Wednesday will be a big moving day, moving hopefully about a third of the inventory - leaving the current store functional in the meantime.



That's the idea. I just did my June sales tax last night, so the numbers are fresh in my head. The old store took a dive from 2017 to 2018, beginning around March 2018, and averaging a 20-30% drop for most of the rest of the year. 2019 has seen an improvement (with effort) but usually not back up to 2017 levels.

Meanwhile the new store opened in late 2017. Both stores did great at the same time for months, so I did not think one was cannibalizing the other (they're 10 miles apart.) But to use June as an example: old store down about 32% from 2017 to 2018, up about 15% from 2018 to 2019 (so still below 2017.) Meanwhile, new store beat old store's 2017 in 2018, and grew a full 45% from 2018 to 2019. Old store hit the ceiling, new store is way better and still at the floor. **I need two of those** LOL.

I paid attention to what made the new store work better and tried to incorporate it into our "new old" location: relevant neighbors, big shared parking lot, more foot traffic, a big, open floor plan, expanding certain genres, etc.

Very, very good feeling about the new place. Getting it to work the way the previous new place does would change everything. Plus Brian's recent promotion, maybe in a year we could finally be "not struggling" as much.

Just trying not to lose +/- $3K on my way out the door. Or worse if they don't get tenants for a year. (New tenants are coming in several hundred dollars a month higher than what I was paying, so I don't see a downside for them. It's just a matter of if they want to be hard headed or not.)
Well it sounds like you know what will make a store successful. Being able to find parking for a store is huge in my opinion. Great that you have a good relationship going with the bar owner. Your stores will become the revival of Tower Records!
 

MySmallWorldof4

Well-Known Member
I know this will not be popular, but, I think that as a society we way overdo the water thing. I have a theory that unless you measure urine output, and that would be gross, a lot of the excess water consumed just stays in our cells waiting for a time to be needed, but, since most of us don't live in a desert, we almost never use it up. And we maintain a whole lot more water weight.

I remember I was overweight when I joined the service. At the time they were desperate for new recruits, big war and all, so they had a program where you could join up, use up some of your in service time, becoming a lean mean fighting machine. It was called MREP, or Medical Remedial Enlistment Program. What they did was eliminate the need for will power in the weight loss process. It consisted of 3 hours in the morning and 3 hours in the afternoon of an intense non stop series of military exercises done in maddening sequence followed by a brisk 1/4 mile run in combat boots, over and over and over again for those three hour intervals. We existed on around 1000 calories per day, one canteen of pee warm water per day, ending with a weigh in and then out to practice marching and the other details of military life. All done during the balmy summer months in Amarillo, Texas. Anyway I told you all that to tell you that my first day I lost 26 pounds. As they explained to me was all water weight. In 7 weeks I lost 89 pounds. I'm starting to be winded just typing this out. The good part is that I never really put more then 10 pounds on for over three years, then I got stationed 20 miles from home and spent most of my off duty there, including nights. Big mistake.
You lost 26 pounds in a day! Holy moly! Like I said earlier, I can tell if I have enough fluids by the color of urine. We do get lots of water from fruits and vegetables too so we don’t need to be deliberate and drink 64 oz of h2o in a day.
 

MySmallWorldof4

Well-Known Member
Over the weekend i fostered a stray kitten who followed someone i know home. He was underweight, covered in poop, had worms, and had at least twenty fleas we pulled off him. At first he was somewhat aggressive and hissed when i came near him. But then i gave him a can of wet food and he became the most snuggly cat ever met, and purred so long it kept him awake 😂😂

The rescue i work with found him transport to a cat rescue up in Akron and started medical treatment for him. He's going make someone a very lucky cat owner ❤❤

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Oh my gosh! Two different colored eyes! That is so rare. I want that cat!
 

Tony the Tigger

Well-Known Member
I know this will not be popular, but, I think that as a society we way overdo the water thing. I have a theory that unless you measure urine output, and that would be gross, a lot of the excess water consumed just stays in our cells waiting for a time to be needed, but, since most of us don't live in a desert, we almost never use it up. And we maintain a whole lot more water weight.

I remember I was overweight when I joined the service. At the time they were desperate for new recruits, big war and all, so they had a program where you could join up, use up some of your in service time, becoming a lean mean fighting machine. It was called MREP, or Medical Remedial Enlistment Program. What they did was eliminate the need for will power in the weight loss process. It consisted of 3 hours in the morning and 3 hours in the afternoon of an intense non stop series of military exercises done in maddening sequence followed by a brisk 1/4 mile run in combat boots, over and over and over again for those three hour intervals. We existed on around 1000 calories per day, one canteen of pee warm water per day, ending with a weigh in and then out to practice marching and the other details of military life. All done during the balmy summer months in Amarillo, Texas. Anyway I told you all that to tell you that my first day I lost 26 pounds. As they explained to me was all water weight. In 7 weeks I lost 89 pounds. I'm starting to be winded just typing this out. The good part is that I never really put more then 10 pounds on for over three years, then I got stationed 20 miles from home and spent most of my off duty there, including nights. Big mistake.

Your new nickname: sponge.
 

MySmallWorldof4

Well-Known Member
Oh and i learned that you don't have to potty train cats. You just put down litter boxes and they instinctively know what to do with it. I watched this guy go from pooping all over my bathroom to only using a litter box in 0.0 seconds. That's apparently normal and cats just do that. Makes me feel better about getting a younger cat if A every outgrows her allergy.
Yeah, cats are amazing. They just know to go in a litter box.
 

Goofyernmost

Well-Known Member
You lost 26 pounds in a day! Holy moly! Like I said earlier, I can tell if I have enough fluids by the color of urine. We do get lots of water from fruits and vegetables too so we don’t need to be deliberate and drink 64 oz of h2o in a day.
Yes, but, sadly the losses slowed up drastically to just a few pounds a day. At one point it all stalled. No loss at all, I think it was around 200 lbs. then it just dropped like a rock until I met my goal. It is seven weeks that I don't try to conjure up often, however, as I got older it really became clear that it was a massive physical accomplishment and for a guy that was never into sports, that was how I maintained my fight over illnesses and stress. I had never experienced anything like it before and not even close since then. I guess it is true that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
 

Tony the Tigger

Well-Known Member
So, does anyone here in this forum have a weird sneeze reflex when they go from the indoors to the sunlight? I do. It doesn't happen all the time, but much of the time. This video popped in my Youtube recommended videos. Apparently I have a photic reflex.


I thought that was everybody - like a known thing, “If you feel like you have to sneeze but it’s not coming out, look up at the light.”
 

MySmallWorldof4

Well-Known Member
Speaking of litter boxes, I just got a new one, plus a litter genie and a new litter mat. Amazon Prime day strikes again. This should help our laundry room not be so stinky
My neighbor has a litter genie. I just find it easier to just throw out the pee and poop right away. We used to have a diaper genie with our first kid and it seemed awesome at first until you needed to empty it. A week of dirty diapers even in the genie did not smell good. But in any case which litter box did you get?
 

StarWarsGirl

Well-Known Member
My neighbor has a litter genie. I just find it easier to just throw out the pee and poop right away. We used to have a diaper genie with our first kid and it seemed awesome at first until you needed to empty it. A week of dirty diapers even in the genie did not smell good. But in any case which litter box did you get?
The thing is that with me, I don't want to do it if I have to get a bag out to throw away. Girl who I used to cat sit for had something similar. Never drank, and it was so much easier to clean. Granted, she had one cat, not two, but my current setup is a nuisance.

I actually got the litter genie branded box. It has really high sides, which is good because I have the messiest cats ever. Litter everywhere because they can't seem to keep it in the box. They also pee entirely in one box and poop in the other. The boxes are next to each other, and because they also have no shame and will go in front of me, I've seen them pee in one and then step out to pee in the other. So the one that they pee in is always disgusting. This new no has handles so when we inevitably have to dump it, it should be easier.
 

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