We did the same with ours, who are now 28 and 24. Once they were old enough to walk alongside the cart at the grocery store, they had to hang onto the cart to make sure they wouldn't run away. They both still do it sometimes on the rare occasion we are in a store together with a cart.

I remind them if they run away now, it's no longer my problem.
Yea, there are too many people out there that have children that don’t actually parent. Please, don’t have children if you’re gonna’ be that irresponsible. It ain’t easy, but my wife and myself knew that goin’ in. We both come from 4-sibling families. Our kids are 3 years and 2 months apart from youngest to oldest, so they were all pretty little at the same time.
Although our special needs son (middle child, so throw that in the mix

) is still at home with us, our daughters have been out on their own for many years now.
Back to the shopping with them, there is an infamous incident that I’ve related on this site before…
We were all shopping together at Walmart one morning. Our youngest wanted something and we told her no.
Well, the proverbial fit ensued. I pulled her aside and tried to explain and calm her down…no dice.
With that, I scooped her up, kicking and screaming, under my arm and headed for the exit.
Just as soon as I got outside with her, the little rat started screaming at the top of her lungs “HEEELLLLLP, MOOOMMMMMY…!!!!! HEEELLLLLLLLLLLP…!!!!!!!!!! You can just imagine all the people within earshot with their eyes now on me…!!!!!


I quickly explained the situation, then headed off to strap her in our van.
Took me way too long to finally get her strapped in her car seat, still kicking and screaming, but I stuck to my guns.
She finally calmed down shortly before my wife showed up with our other 2 kids.
Takeaway…
She never tried that EVER again, because she knew we wouldn’t put up with it.
Also, our kids never had any issues with alcohol, drugs, promiscuity, sneaking’ out, etc., while growing up, and not now either.
And yes, along with attributing all that to the best parenting we could do, my wife and myself also attribute the way our kids turned out to 2 other factors…
The involvement of their grandparents (my folks and my MIL) in their lives, and just plain luck. None of that is lost on us, but we also did the best we could, so have no regrets in that regard…!!!
