I wish I could avoid planning, but I don't think it's in my nature! I'm such a micromanager!
I know that my schedule seems crazy (and undoubtedly it is), but we are hoping to not actually go too crazy on the long days: we will be in the parks, but not rushing to get a ton done. The fiance doesn't do roller coasters, so it eliminates a lot of the waiting and stress of getting to different rides. The crazy AK/MK day will probably look like AK from 7-12, then to MK and relax. Once we get done with AK, we have nothing else to try to fit in...so we don't even need to go on rides - we can just relax!
And I'm not going to even jinx anything by talking about the thing that you said at the end
It seems insane, but I'm thinking that we will be able to push ourselves in the morning and then relax and do whatever we want in the afternoon. If not, I can always (attempt) to be flexible.
Since your fiance doesn't do roller coasters, honestly there's really no need to rush any of it. With very few exceptions, the only things that generally need a FP tend to be the ones that are bigger thrills, so the most popular FP's are for the coasters. There's a few exceptions:
Magic Kingdom:
-7dmt (hardly big enough to count as a coaster)
-Big Thunder Mountain Railroad (again, not really a coaster... get your fiance to Youtube it first and see what happens lol)
-Anna and Elsa Meet and Greet
-Splash Mountain (if you're riding during the day; after about 9 pm, the wait goes way down for this one)
-Peter Pan's Flight
-Haunted Mansion
-Pirates of the Caribbean (those last two, HM and PoC, both don't need a FP after about 9 pm usually, and during the day they tend to go through phases where they are walk on as well. It comes and goes in spurts until the nighttime entertainment starts).
Epcot:
-Soarin'
-Test Track (FP one of those, and be there at opening for the other)
-Mission Space, Spaceship Earth, Maelstrom, and Living with the Land seldom jump over 30 minutes, but it can happen on occasion
Animal Kingdom:
-Kilimanjaro Safari
-Kali River Rapids
-Primeval Whirl and Dinosaur go through busy spurts, but when we were there three weeks ago we got FP+ for both using our rolling FP at the last minute, so not really high demand like those first two
Hollywood Studios:
-Toy Story
-Star Tours
-Tower of Terror (though I'm not sure if someone who doesn't do rollercoasters will want to ride this)
I say all of that to make this point: if you're not going on any of the bigger thrills, there's really no need to stress about getting everything in, as very few other things will have any kind of significant wait times to them. I wouldn't plan to "relax" at MK. If you really still want to be at AK at 7 am (which means getting up by about 5 am to allow plenty of time for transportation and all), I would highly recommend going back to the hotel after lunch for a nap, a swim, or a little recharging time in general before going back out for the afternoon/night.
You sound a lot like how I was this time last month; I was so excited about my trip, and wanted everything to be perfect, that I found myself rethinking everything way too much. We ended up having a great trip, and it was about as close to perfect as it could have been, but I really could cut the time I spent thinking about those things in half and still had just as much fun lol.
Besides, you'll be on your honeymoon! Who wants to have to make plans to be up at the crack of dawn when they're on such a romantic trip?
Either way, I'm jealous! We were just there, and I already want to go back lol.