Pre-Trip Going to Disney with my Mommy and Daddy

It was July 10, 1980-something. My family had just moved to Atlanta, Ga. and my parents decided to buy Walt Disney World Annual Passes for the whole the family. That decision sparked a major turning point in our families history. During the course of that first year as Annual Pass holders, we became a Disney Family. And not just an average Disney family that visited once a year or every few years. We averaged 2-4 trips per year. As the years passed and my brother, sisters and myself have grown older, we have never stopped being a Disney Family. In the dozens and dozens of trips we have taken, there has been practically every variation of which family members went. Sometimes its the whole family, others have been me joining my sister or brothers family, sometimes just my wife and I, and many of the grandparents, (my parents) visiting with the younglings. We had done Disney every which way possible, .......or at least thats what I thought.

The course of events leading up to this trip started out a bit frustrating, but ended up being very exciting, and something I had never considered as an option. After several changes in the trip plans of who would be going and when, it ended up being my Mother, Father, and myself. In all the years of visiting, I have never had a trip with just myself and my parents. So before I get to the details of how this came about, I shall introduce the cast of the trip. Please pardon the quality of the pictures of my parents as my mom used her cell phone to take pictures of actual printed photos in her photo album. She apparently did not deem my PTR worthy of taking the time to scan the photos and email them, lol. So here is the cast:

Who:

Me:
Keith, a 30-something Disney nerd

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Ok, so thats not me, but its a good example of how much I act like a child when Im in WDW.
Here is an actual photo of me which shows my other "Disney Side", which is the self proclaimed Mayor of Drunkey Town.
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For my parents photos, I will post pictures of them at Disney from waaaaay back in the day in an effort to establish their street cred in the Disney fan community, hahaha. And also just because the outfits are too awesome not too!

My Mom: Debbie

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She is rockin' that faux snakeskin bathing suit tucked into those jorts. And yes, my baby sister was a little more daring and went with the bathing suit sans jorts.

My Father: Paul

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If I could replicate that outfit (my dads), I would totally do it. This very well may be my endeavour leading up to our trip. And no, I will not make any effort to recreate the midriff and high cut shorts I am wearing in this photo, although I feel I did pull it off quite well back then.

Here is a more recent photo of my parents together at Disney. They are in the second row behind my sister and her son in the first row:

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Where: 5 days at Animal Kingdom Lodge Jambo House!!!

When: Shortly after Pandora opens at AK!!!


So there you go. Some of you know me from my past trip reports and now you know my awesome parents as well!

The idea for this trip was born when my wife and her mother planned a two week trip to visit Italy this fall. Yes, the real Italy, not the pavilion at Epcot. I wont be able to join them and my wife is basically using all her vacation time for the year. Ive always talked about taking a solo trip to WDW so my wife suggested that I actually do it this year since we cant go together. If your wife gives you a free pass to travel and agrees to take care of the house and animals while you are gone, YOU TAKE IT!!! So I did. A few days into my planning, my sister calls me to tell me that she booked a Disney Cruise for her family. I told her I was planning a solo trip and within minutes the plans changed to me joining them for a few days at WDW before they set sail on the Fantasy. I checked availability, (thanks @lostpro9het for the help) went back and forth with my sister on which resort, and after several days we decided and I was all ready to book the room when my sister calls to tell me they decided to visit Cape Canaveral instead.

So back to the original plan of a solo trip. Then I had the idea that bringing my youngest nephew along might be a fun adventure (he is four years old). After my family stopped laughing hysterically at the idea of me (I dont have children) being able to handle a four year old at Disney, they convinced me that it might not be the pie in the sky dream of a perfect trip I was envisioning. After my bruised ego healed, I thought asking my parents to tag along would ease the worries of my nephew joining me. I called my Dad, pitched the idea, and he said he would think about it and call me back. A few days later I get a call with a counter offer, (my Dad is an attorney so negotiating is always a factor, lol). My parents said they would like to go to Disney, but without any young children. Just me and them. My Mom explained how they have always enjoyed the pictures and stories my wife and I have of our trips together and how we take it slow and mostly eat, drink and just soak in the atmosphere and they have never had a trip like that for themselves. It has always been with us kids, or the grand kids. I had never realized that. My parents moved Heaven and Earth for us kids to have an amazing childhood and if anybody deserves a few days to relax at WDW, it is them.

Granted, they wont exactly be alone since I am going, but we are planning to enjoy the best of both worlds. I will take a day or two to have my solo trip time while my parents do whatever their hearts desire. We will mix in random times to meet up and enjoy some time together as well. I am trying to convince my Mom to join the forums and participate in this PTR as well so hopefully she will and it will add another perspective. We are still in the early stages of planning so I will update this as we make progress. More to come soon!!!!! Have a great day!!!!!











 

wdisney9000

Truindenashendubapreser
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Currently riding back on the bus from MK to AKL. Grown men who do not give up their seat for a lady standing right in front of them really ticks me off. Forget the scooters and strollers (which are frustrating), but a grown man who allows a lady (of any age) to stand, while he sits on his rear end is dispicable to me. Who raised these *alleged* men? Especially when you see a woman carrying a baby. My mother would smack the daylights out of me if I just sat there while a woman with child in tow struggled to grasp onto a nylon handle. For shame. Any complaint you may have against Disney pales in comparison to these pansy men. Fellas, get off your a** and give a lady a seat.
 

MinnieM123

Premium Member
Currently riding back on the bus from MK to AKL. Grown men who do not give up their seat for a lady standing right in front of them really ticks me off. Forget the scooters and strollers (which are frustrating), but a grown man who allows a lady (of any age) to stand, while he sits on his rear end is dispicable to me. Who raised these *alleged* men? Especially when you see a woman carrying a baby. My mother would smack the daylights out of me if I just sat there while a woman with child in tow struggled to grasp onto a nylon handle. For shame. Any complaint you may have against Disney pales in comparison to these pansy men. Fellas, get off your a** and give a lady a seat.

If either a woman or a man is standing on a bus, while carrying an infant, I think that someone who is sitting, should definitely offer a seat. I ride buses all the time commuting to work each day. Sometimes the bus driver may need to make an unexpected, hard brake stop, which throws the people who are standing, off their balance. It's not safe to stand on a moving bus, while holding a baby.

I always offer my seat to someone with a baby, or to someone who is disabled in any way. There are even signs on all the city buses to offer your seat in these instances. I think it's a sad commentary that there even needs to be those posted signs on the bus at all. We're living in a far less gracious society these days.
 

Zipadeelady

Well-Known Member
Currently riding back on the bus from MK to AKL. Grown men who do not give up their seat for a lady standing right in front of them really ticks me off. Forget the scooters and strollers (which are frustrating), but a grown man who allows a lady (of any age) to stand, while he sits on his rear end is dispicable to me. Who raised these *alleged* men? Especially when you see a woman carrying a baby. My mother would smack the daylights out of me if I just sat there while a woman with child in tow struggled to grasp onto a nylon handle. For shame. Any complaint you may have against Disney pales in comparison to these pansy men. Fellas, get off your a** and give a lady a seat.
I like you more and more with each surprising post. :happy:
 

ScarletBegonias

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Currently riding back on the bus from MK to AKL. Grown men who do not give up their seat for a lady standing right in front of them really ticks me off. Forget the scooters and strollers (which are frustrating), but a grown man who allows a lady (of any age) to stand, while he sits on his rear end is dispicable to me. Who raised these *alleged* men? Especially when you see a woman carrying a baby. My mother would smack the daylights out of me if I just sat there while a woman with child in tow struggled to grasp onto a nylon handle. For shame. Any complaint you may have against Disney pales in comparison to these pansy men. Fellas, get off your a** and give a lady a seat.

When I was pregnant with my daughter (7 months pregnant), I went to DC and took the Metro. I stood on a packed Metro crammed in between a bunch of people while a whole slew of men stared at me from their seats. :cautious:
 

sheriffwoody

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Currently riding back on the bus from MK to AKL. Grown men who do not give up their seat for a lady standing right in front of them really ticks me off. Forget the scooters and strollers (which are frustrating), but a grown man who allows a lady (of any age) to stand, while he sits on his rear end is dispicable to me. Who raised these *alleged* men? Especially when you see a woman carrying a baby. My mother would smack the daylights out of me if I just sat there while a woman with child in tow struggled to grasp onto a nylon handle. For shame. Any complaint you may have against Disney pales in comparison to these pansy men. Fellas, get off your a** and give a lady a seat.
I've had many a kind gentleman offer me a seat on the Disney buses. I usually politely decline (unless my feet are killing me or something) since it's just me and my husband with no kids to keep up with, but I always appreciate the gesture.
 

bee

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When I was pregnant with my daughter (7 months pregnant), I went to DC and took the Metro. I stood on a packed Metro crammed in between a bunch of people while a whole slew of men stared at me from their seats. :cautious:
Can't like this. Not okay.

In my experience on the NYC subway I've usually seen seated passengers offer their seats to obviously-pregnant passengers. I've also been offered seats when I am not pregnant and think/hope I don't look pregnant.

On the NJ buses (at least my area) I am almost always offered a seat if the bus is standing-room only, and usually men waiting to board the bus will offer to let women go first. Usually people are good about waiting for other passengers to exit before trying to get on. One time, however, I was exiting the bus with several grocery bags (like 2-3 on each arm...and the heavy reusable kind, not little plastic bags!). A dude rushed onto the bus without letting me off first, then stood to the side, still on the entrance steps, as if waiting for me to just pass him instead of realizing his mistake and getting off. I would have hit him in the head with my bags if I had tried to get off while he was still there! I loudly said, "EXCUSE ME," and he still wouldn't move until the bus driver told him to move. Finally he let me off and I heard his traveling companion tell him off, so I felt a bit better.
 

Swissmiss

Premium Member
@bee - I must confess, I've been know to "readjust" my purse or backpack as I am exiting the bus if there are many people trying push their way on before I can get off, as I sweetly say "Oops! Sorry!" My other pet peeve on public transportation are the people who think their purse, backpack or briefcase has paid for a ticket and gets to have its own seat (I'm speaking about the ones who make no effort to remove it while people are standing). You can usually tell these people right away, because they are often on the outside seat with their bag on the window seat.
 

ScarletBegonias

Well-Known Member
Can't like this. Not okay.

In my experience on the NYC subway I've usually seen seated passengers offer their seats to obviously-pregnant passengers. I've also been offered seats when I am not pregnant and think/hope I don't look pregnant.

On the NJ buses (at least my area) I am almost always offered a seat if the bus is standing-room only, and usually men waiting to board the bus will offer to let women go first. Usually people are good about waiting for other passengers to exit before trying to get on. One time, however, I was exiting the bus with several grocery bags (like 2-3 on each arm...and the heavy reusable kind, not little plastic bags!). A dude rushed onto the bus without letting me off first, then stood to the side, still on the entrance steps, as if waiting for me to just pass him instead of realizing his mistake and getting off. I would have hit him in the head with my bags if I had tried to get off while he was still there! I loudly said, "EXCUSE ME," and he still wouldn't move until the bus driver told him to move. Finally he let me off and I heard his traveling companion tell him off, so I felt a bit better.

Yeah, I was kind of ed off and admittedly, scared! The train was packed and they go very fast and make pretty abrupt stops. My big belly was freaking me out. Buy yeah, not a single person. Nice.
 

MinnieM123

Premium Member
When I was pregnant with my daughter (7 months pregnant), I went to DC and took the Metro. I stood on a packed Metro crammed in between a bunch of people while a whole slew of men stared at me from their seats. :cautious:

Sorry to hear that--positively unacceptable for any able-bodied people sitting, to not offer a seat to a pregnant woman. What's the matter with people?!:mad:
 

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