Definitely beyond the offended stage and am also proud of it. When people tell me I am obsessed, I just lift my head up, smile and reply 'yes I am.'
Here is the thing, I am a modest person, always have been. I have never smoked, have no interest in alcohol, don't sleep around (still single), don't gamble. I work hard, take care of my family, pay my bills, save my money. If the one thing I do in life is spend it on a vacation where I am treated like a a princess for a week then why do people care?
Disney is just my speed, I don't like laying around on beaches, so trips to Aruba and cruises are not for me. Vegas was fun but again, I don't gamble and there are only so many shows you can see. I have no strength so you won't catch me rock climbing or any outdoor activities. Disney is just what makes me happy. Amazing food, clean parks, friendly people, fun activities and the freedom to go all over the resort without feeling like I am going to be kidnapped/mugged somewhere.
Only now have I started thinking about doing a non Disney trip to Hawaii but I haven't gotten to the point to skip a year to fund it, lol
As for decor, yes, my living room and kitchen are all Disney.
And I am always the first person the nay-sayers come to when planning their trips.