Thanks everyone!
I'll start with a response to my height. I'm actually around 6'2" - 6'3" my wife is like 5'2". This is why I look so tall.
Next, cost of a wedding down there. Its actually not as bad as you would probably imagine. I'm willing ot tell you ours cost around 12-13,000 after all was said and done. I do know it can be a lot cheaper, and much more expensive. (TONS of options and details) finding out about weddings is actually real simple. You just give disney weddings a call or go to their website and request info. They assign you a wedding planner and they take care of the rest. Our wedding was FLAWLESS. Of course, what did we expect from Disney? I guess the biggest option when it comes to getting married down there is where to do it. We chose the chapel because, well, thats what its there for and its cost is reasonable. Unlike other places like in front of the castle, where you have to plop down $35,000 just for the spot alone. WOW is right! You can pick ANYWHERE in all of Disney World if you're willing to pay the price. The disney weddings site actually has a pic of someone doing it inside the Great Movie Ride in the Wizard of Oz scene. (wierd) We had our reception at American Adventure. They close down the attraction for you and everyting. Anyway, options go down to the smallest detail like transoportation, cake, dove release, and on and on and on.
Needless to say you will be treated like royalty for the day. Could not have been a better day. We will never forget it. Hope all this helps.
forgot to answer one..... we had about 40 people total from both of our families actually come to the wedding. They all had to pay their own way, including hotels and other things like tickets. MOst of them treated it like their own vacation anyway. Her family consists of hundreds of people, so we handled that by sending invitations only to her immediate and extremely close family. The rest we sent annoucements to. We explained the main reson to all of them, being that the reception for all of them wopuld have cost a fortune. It was something like 80-100 bucks a plate at the rexception. Cost is by person. We had dinner at Bongos in Downtown Disney the night before right after the rehearsal. Out on the balcony. It was beautiful as well.